Trained in the Dojo of Silicon Valley

The Valley’s entrepreneurial spirit is in my DNA. I’m a Silicon Valley native whose formative years and entire career have unfolded in technology. Twenty years were spent inside technology companies, first as an individual contributor, manager, then director. Twenty-plus years since have been spent coaching the leaders who now walk that same path.

On the mat

Genuine power doesn’t come from force. It comes from wisdom, empathy, and confidence enabling you to remain present under pressure.

Bob & Hans at Tahoe, Kindness in Leadership Metaphor

My journey

Own Your Story.
Don’t Be Owned By It.

My role as your coach is to help you become the fully embodied leader which is imperative when stepping into the next level of leadership.

At a very basic level, this requires a willingness to be yourself. I know how important and difficult this can be, because for the first 20 years of my career, I often failed to live this value myself.

As a gay man leading teams in the early days of Silicon Valley, it seemed safer not to come out. For colleagues and clients, I performed a highly curated version of myself. I got very good at it.
What I couldn’t see then was what that performance cost me. It takes an immense amount of energy to stage-manage your life and stick to a script.
The turn

When I finally owned my story, everything changed. I didn’t just feel better. I led better.

This evolution is at the root of my coaching practice. Clarity and resolve come with courage and  honesty.

What I believe

Three things I hold to be true

Your true value as a leader isn’t revealed in moments of certainty. It’s proven when there are no clear answers.

Leadership is a practice, not a destination. Vision, presence, and resolve are capacities you cultivate, not skills you master once.

Your edge (aka potential) is almost always greater than you think it is.

Our work together

My vision for our work together

I have reached a point in my career where some of my clients were born not long before I started coaching. And yet, this work feels more vital to me than ever.

Change is the only constant in Silicon Valley, and the AI era may be the most consequential landscape we’ve ever had to navigate. My vision is to equip you to perform at the highest level in this new reality.

In doing so, I hope to make a positive impact in your life, the lives of the people you manage, and the integrity of the products you create.

what to Expect

Endeavor Team Challenge finish line, four racers crossing together

Endeavor Team Challenge

Crossing the line as a team. My work with clients feels a lot like this.

Client voices

I chose to work with Bob because of his experience in marketing and sales, particularly with technology marketing. My coaching engagement with him quickly evolved into real scenario planning; we worked on exercises that related to immediate issues and current projects. I highly recommend investing in yourself, setting time aside to prioritize and reflect. My work with Bob definitely built momentum, confidence, and tangible results.

— Vice President, Global Business Marketing, Meta

I come from a service engineering and production background. Pushing my team to hit deadlines is second nature to me, probably because of my military background. While I consistently achieved stellar results, I routinely received feedback that I was “rough around the edges.” I knew things could be easier; that’s why I hired Bob. He gave me ideas on how to get to the same place, producing results, with less confrontation with more effectiveness and with empathy.

— Senior Director, Services, Apple

The record

Experience, education, pursuits

Lasting change is a somatic endeavor. I’ve trained that belief on the mat through martial arts and tested it on the course through adventure racing. 

Experience

2006 to present

Executive Coach

Resolve, Inc.

2009 to 2012

Board Member & VP Marketing

Professional Coaches and Mentors Association

1998 to 2001

Director, Clarify PSO Partnerships & Alliances

Nortel – Clarify eBusiness

1996 to 1998

Director, Field Marketing

Clarify, Inc.

1995 to 1996

Regional Director of Field Marketing, Multivendor Services

Digital Equipment Corporation

1983 to 1995

Hewlett-Packard Corporation

  • Global Marketing Manager, WCSO
  • I.T. Director, Golden Gate Area Sales Region
  • Telecommunications Engineer, Corporate Telecom
  • Distribution Systems Administrator, Personal Computer Distribution Operation
  • Telemarketing Sales Consultant, Computer Supplies Operation

Education

Golden Gate University

MBA, Telecommunications Management

San José State University

B.S. Marketing

Training and certification
  • 5 Behaviors
    Licensed Authorized Associate
  • Coaches Training Institute
    Co-Active Coach Training
  • Kolbe
    Certified Consultant and Performance Specialist
  • Leadership Circle 360
    Certified Consultant
  • Leadership Embodiment International
    Certified Coach and Trainer
  • National Academy of Sports Medicine
    Certified Trainer
  • Six Seconds SEI Emotional Intelligence
    Leadership Development Consultant
  • Strozzi Institute
    Coaching Certification
  • The Energy Project
    Trainer
  • The Institute of Cultural Affairs
    ToP Facilitator Trained
  • Tilt365
    Certified Coach

Pursuits & Interests

Aikido

4th degree black belt

Krav Maga

Advanced Practitioner

Scuba

PADI Advanced Open Water Diver

Non-Profit

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